I agree with most of your post but this part:
We would need to create a dfferent TYPE of web site that would focus on THE OTHERS PARTS of all of our lives; where the FOCUS was where we each have pleasure and happiness and joy; it seems this is not the place to talk about ALL of our life success stories here.

I just share my journey as I go.
This holiday season seems to be one of both letting go of an entire belief system and simulatneously living in freedom.
I'd like to think that I can state where I'm at, regardless if it is "clean" or not
(according to your view Aria-or whatever your name is-it IS confusing) freely.
And I think it is the same for everyone else. It is a matter of perception.
Yes, Christel is an advocate and it seems, still dealing with various aspects of anger.
That is all well and good and part of the process.
If she chooses not to post, then that is her right.
She does have a unique and direct approach, very necessary for advocacy issues regarding the state of Washington
and its' laws.
I just choose another venue that suits me.
I think we all are an important ingredient to the recipe of the soup that you suggested.
Any names for the soup?

just teasing.....

Ooooooch...

My Legal Name is Arianna.

My Short Name Aria

There is NO WHATEVER my name is... I have given this information befor. No need to be rude.

I wasn't being rude.
I can just never figure out who is who when people change their posting names.
I'm not quite as savvy as the moderators in that department, so I ask.
Take it as you wish.

Christel, I'm sorry to hear we will not have your contribution on this site anymore but respect your choice of course. Are you interested at all in elaborating about why you don't want to write anymore? I don't think you should change your mind but I just thought I'd offer the invitation in case you'd like to discuss it further. You can always email me privately too if you want.